The 4 numbers that matter
GVWR (Gross Vehicle Weight Rating): the maximum weight of your tow vehicle alone — chassis + body + fluids + occupants + cargo + tongue/pin weight of trailer. Stamped on the door jamb sticker.
GCWR (Gross Combined Weight Rating): the maximum weight of tow vehicle + trailer + everything in both. Found in the owner's manual.
Payload: the difference between GVWR and the empty curb weight of the tow vehicle. This is the math that catches first-timers — passengers, cargo, AND tongue/pin weight all count against payload.
Tow Capacity: the maximum trailer weight the tow vehicle can pull. Often the headline number on truck advertising; less informative than GCWR for real trips.